Goal-setting and rituals — a summary of techniques
So, at the end of my previous post, I noted that I would do a quick summary of the techniques, and I have a very specific reason for doing so.
I struggle to achieve some of my goals. I’m committed to them; they’re important; but I get overwhelmed and lag. I need something more to help kick my butt. A checklist isn’t enough for those ones. So, I’m making a list in this very pedestrian fashion so that I can then pick and choose which “enhancements” / “rituals” I can add for specific goals that are challenging me.
Here’s my list:
- Simple rituals
- List the goals
- Include checkboxes when completed
- Schedule the activity
- Add a duration element
- Add a quantity element
- Gamify to be a “chain” of achievements (the Seinfeld method)
- Social engineering
- Public announcement
- Tribal (join a group)
- Informal accountability (buddy)
- Formal accountability (paid professional)
- Participation and completion rituals using gamification
- Performance / high score / personal best
- Completion / participation element
- Certification and combination rituals
- Validation of completion (external)
- Validation by test (standard)
- Combination (through point systems)
- Reward rituals
- Simple
- Combination
I’m a little shocked, to be honest. I knew that I hadn’t paid enough attention to rituals in goal-setting, hence my desire to work through this. I did NOT expect so many choices when I was done with my curation, and I’m sure I haven’t thought of them all. I know, for example, that I focused on ritual over ceremony, leaving out options where part of a “reward” or “completion” might be some form of party or ceremony to acknowledge that I’ve achieved something.
It is a good list; let’s see if it can help me prepare for retirement.