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#MoreJoy – Day 9 of 31 – Fall colours

The PolyBlog
October 12 2021

On Saturday, we headed up to the inlaws’ cottage for an annual Thanksgiving weekend event. The weekend is a combination visit / closing up of the cottage for the winter, but it culminates in a large family dinner on the Sunday. It couldn’t be held last year, due to the lockdown world we live in, and most people in the family were happy to reunite in a double-vaccinated world with a relaunch of the annual tradition, Andrea and Jacob among the hopeful participants.

I confess that I find the event a bit overwhelming at times, to be honest, with some 30+ people in attendance. We often have busy weekends in the summers too, but without the extra pressure of a large sit-down meal. Instead, it is usually hamburgers and hotdogs, other BBQ options, or something crock-pot-based with buffet-style meals quite often and just eating out on the lawn, scattered here and there.

This year, the numbers were down a bit, with one family opting out for safety, another away on a trip, no extra bodies, etc. So it was under 25 people this year, which is also the provincial regulation (yay! although they were under anyway as the kids ate on the porch). But I still felt it was still too many, too much for me yet. I’m fine with Andrea’s parents and her sister’s family, plus us, it takes us to 8 people, and I can handle that many. However, that’s not entirely accurate either as it is 8 people I know well, and am really comfortable with, no extra social stuff going on. Immediate family, basically. But even with smaller numbers, my social quota is met pretty early. And this weekend? I was feeling overwhelmed before I even got there. So I had already decided to vote with my feet.

I had a great offer to eat with my sister and her family, but honestly, by that point, I was feeling run-down and I didn’t even want that much interaction. I just wanted to be a hermit. So I did Thanksgiving by myself, just me and my Kindle and laptop. Which might sound horrible to some, but was just right for me this year.

But one part of the weekend tradition was still alive for me. I got to see some of the fall colours on the drive on Saturday. It was really overcast, so the rich colours weren’t reflecting back, admittedly, but the rest still looked good. Andrea snapped some pics on my phone while we were driving, so not the “best” setup, obviously, but you can see some of nature’s display.

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I’ll take that joy anytime.

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#MoreJoy – Day 8 of 31 – Writing reviews

The PolyBlog
October 12 2021

On Day 6, I mentioned the PolyWogg Reading Challenge (#MoreJoy – Day 6 of 31 – My Reading Challenge), and it is a bit of a chicken-and-egg dilemma which one I would write about first, as they go hand-in-hand.

I like reading, first and foremost. And after reading pretty much any book, I like writing a review. Some people like doing reviews as it is like a bookmark for them…a milestone that says “I read this”, while others are content merely to add the book name to a spreadsheet or app or website to track what they’ve read. Others are more interested in the next book than keeping track of other books. And others keep a list, but not for any milestone purpose other than to prevent themselves from buying the same book again! I feel all those desires too, but there is something different about my madness.

I like writing reviews because I like organizing my thoughts around the book. Did I like it for the style? The plot? The characters? The diversion?

Did I feel “meh” because it was simply not compelling to me on any level? Did I find myself “forcing” myself to finish it?

Yet my reviews don’t stop at books. I want to do the same with TV episodes even, movies, music, etc. I don’t feel the urge to review telescopes, so it isn’t universal, but I do like the idea of reviewing accessories like smartphone adapters. I don’t review electronics, but I might review an app or two. Or 100.

In a way, it is tightly tied to my curation desire for knowledge. I like pulling a bunch of wayward bits of information together into a framework for a more coherent whole. And so I write multiple types of reviews.

Yet therein lies part of the rub. It is easy to get BEHIND on reviews, except there’s no deadline. I have lots of books that I have read in the last 2 years that I haven’t done a review for yet, as well as movies. Or whole seasons of TV shows. I’m also somewhat unclear if there is an audience for any of the reviews. I don’t promote them widely or anything, I’m not trying to drum up a large following.

Way back when I was first starting my website, I loved the idea of doing NEW movie reviews the same weekend it was released. See it opening day, review it opening night, share my views before the hordes make their decisions. Yet I also like having a life too. Back then, I didn’t have much of one and that was one direction I considered pursuing long-term if I was single. That’s a much more complicated story than I have space or time for right here, but I considered trying to make myself into an amateur reviewer.

The significance of that time though leads directly to two other aspects that continue. First, I take my reviews seriously enough to try to do them respectfully, not some tongue-in-cheek, drive-by review. Second, I created a structure that takes some time to write. I can’t dash off a review in 30s, or even 5m. A book review can take me 20-30m to write, plus I then copy it to multiple sites for sharing, save the review in a couple of places for local backup / tracking, and then move on. I binged 35 books back in June, and that means if I review them normally, I’m looking at a minimum of 20h to review them all. That is NOT happening. I need to come up with a new format to review books that is shorter and punchier, not the full-length review that I normally do.

And I’m EXCITED by the idea of coming up with a new format.

Did I mention I LIKE writing reviews? Thinking about reviews? Thinking about how I communicate about reviews? How I share my reviews?

That I like writing ABOUT reviews, as I’m doing now?

I have a dream that when I die, I’ll be all caught up on my reviews. In the meantime, I’m going to enJOY the writing.

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#MoreJoy – Day 7 of 31 – Comics

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October 7 2021

I like comics. I don’t mean comic books, I mean individual comics from newspaper-style options. Three to four frames, with a wry comment, some satire, a bit of a spin. Some tell more stories, some are single frame weird situations. Some are simple puns. But I enjoy them, even though I don’t subscribe to a newspaper.

Some ten years or so ago, I discovered GoComics.com. They have a ton of comics ranging from Peanuts, Andy Capp, B.C. all the way to Jane’s World and Bizarro, plus Dilbert, of course. You can view a bunch of them for free online, but if you subscribe for about $15 a year Canadian, they’ll send you a copy in an HTML email every day of the year. If it’s posted, you get it. Not every comic, just the ones you choose. A customized collection just for you.

I subscribe, and I have it set up to send me eight emails a day, all with slightly different content. I have tried ALL their comics over the years, deleting ones that I didn’t like, and keeping the ones that I do, separated into the emails by a series of obvious paramaters:

  • Multi-frame comics (like Dilbert or Peanuts), with it split alphabetically A-M and N-Z;
  • Single-frame comics (like the Far Side), with it split A-F, G-M, N-S, and T-Z; and,
  • Political / editorial comics (like Jeff Stahler) split A-M, N-Z.

I split the MF from SF ones because they are easier to read in batches like that. In any given day, some of the emails might only be 1-2 comics; other days, it might rise to 8-9. Not all comics publish every day.

Overall, I read 23 multi-frame, 50 single-frame, and 22 political/editorial comic titles in a week. Yep, 95 comics in total. I’m reading them electronically, and sometimes I’ll get some that are 15 frames (like from a weekend feed), with lots of dialogue, small text, and my mind is simply, “Nope.” I’m looking for a quick smile, not some deep social commentary. Most days, reading them lasts about 10m.

And if I find a few I like, I save them and share them later on FaceBook.

Yet there are some that I absolutely love and save. Often ones that have some link to a moment in time and a year from now, I’ll ask myself, “Huh? Why did I find that amusing?”.

But I did. And I do generally with each feed. I find it more interesting when I might be behind a few days, go through them, and find almost NONE worthy of sharing. It tells me something about the mood I’m in, likely more than the crop of comics that week.

But it is light and totally unproductive. Just something I do for fun. For me. For a smile.

And that sounds like a good start towards more joy.

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#MoreJoy – Day 6 of 31 – My Reading Challenge

The PolyBlog
October 7 2021

Okay, I admit it. I said MY reading challenge. It is…and it isn’t.

Three years ago, I created a private group on FB and invited only friends to join, if they wanted to do so. I had seen a bunch of online challenges where people read different types of books, some used Bingo cards, some used the alphabet, some only read certain genres, and others were over-the-top complicated or underwhelmingly self-promotion where all the books were by the same publisher. Yawn.

Enter the PolyWogg Reading Challenge. MINE would be different! I’d pull from the best, discard the rest; I’d find some hooks, we’d embrace the same books! Okay, so poetry wasn’t on the list.

Annnnd I made it too complicated. I tried creating a Bingo Card-style exercise, and while it was okay, it wasn’t really creating a “sharing” atmosphere. We were all reading different things at different times. More like people travelling at the same time but to different destinations and with different modes of transport. The only thing we had in common was that we were reading.

Year 2, 2020, I tweaked the setup. I asked for feedback from the handful of people subscribed, we chose some themes/categories, and I added simple badges. It worked, generally, and I tweaked it a bit more for Year 3.

In January, I set the themes for each month of the year, and based on the input from people, I generally have three types of books to read:

a. Reader’s choice — anything they want can fit in here, no one has to listen to me and my choices, they can be REBEL READERS! Embrace their anarchy!

b. Thematic choice — I give a bit of guidance for the theme / category but usually there is a fair bit of room for choice (as people requested); and,

c. Challenge books — these are often a bit denser, and while I sometimes give wide choice, sometimes I pick 2 or 3 books that I want to read and thus putting them on the list helps encourage me to read at least one of them!

Over the last two years, some members have added a few more people, and we have just over 20 or so subscribers. But in any given month, probably only 8 or 9 active posters.

I suspected that we could potentially morph into a traditional book club where in any given month, we might all be reading the same thing. That absolutely hasn’t happened. But what I really like is the sharing and interaction between members. One person will read a book, and recommend it, and then next month or the month after that, the same title shows up on other people’s list for the month, based on the earlier review. People have shared books in physical form too.

But what I love about all of this is that not all of them know each other. They mostly all know me, although a couple are 2 degrees of separation away through another member. And while some of them know each other more than that, most of them primarily interact in the forum. That’s their connection.

Which I didn’t exactly expect, but I should have, probably. When I ran my trivia game by email back in the late 90s, some of the people met through my game and asked to connect to other players who they were competing with regularly. The other person agreed to “match” emails, so they connected. And started talking. Plus I am still friends with someone on FB that I met through that trivia game, a friend of a friend of a friend of someone I barely knew.

I really enjoy reading people’s feedback on the books they are reading, as well as seeing the interactions between people who mainly only know each other through the group. It’s small, it’s intimate, and I would be open to it growing a bit larger, but I would never want it to get above 20-30 active people I don’t think. I like the 2 degrees of separation feel to it.

And interacting with people about books, instead of memes or the news? That always brings me joy.

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#MoreJoy – Day 5 of 31 – Freezies

The PolyBlog
October 5 2021

Jacob and I both tend to run hot, so cold treats are literally, ahem, a treat to cool us down. My love of ice cream is well-known, but I also really enjoy popsicles and freezies. I frequently order multiple boxes early in the summer and we go through them over the course of late spring, summer and early fall. I’ll eat them in the winter too, but they are frequently VERY hard to find in any grocery store, with most treating it as a seasonal item. Last week and before, I wasn’t able to order them online for pickup, and they confirmed last week when I picked up that it is “gone for the season”. Sigh.

I went so far as to look online, and you know who had some? Canadian Tire. I didn’t ask. But it was like one box in Barrhaven, one in Orleans, etc. Not exactly a stash waiting to be looted.

I could order from Amazon, but their prices are frequently nuts. Pass.

I’ve tried in the past to get plastic molds to make popsicles, but it gets messy, you have to wash the handles, they have to be stored upright in the freezer as they’re gelling, etc. Meh.

And then when I was looking for freezies, I saw that they sell supplies to make your own freezies. Whaaaaaaat?

There are some resuable ones that are supposedly silicon bags, and most of the reviews are that the manufacturers lie, the freezies taste like plastic when they come out, and it’s even hard to get them out. Pass.

Oh, wait. They sell plastic freeze tubes? Basically, the plastic that the freezies come in, but with a ziploc sealable end. They’re not reusable, just disposable, but I can control what we put in them? Most of the real freezies are higher on sugar and salt than I would like, so why not?

Tonight, Jacob and I filled up the first six bags with grape Koolaid and cherry Koolaid. Not quite “lite”, but lighter versions than we were eating. The sealer held, and we’re giving it a go.

And as a bonus? Jacob and I got to make them together. He did it willingly even.

Even if they don’t work out, we gave it a try. Fingers crossed, but trying something new with Jacob? That’s #MoreJoy right there.

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